3 Tricks for Finding the Right Butt Plug
The largest concentration of nerve endings on the male body is located on the prostate. Many straight men enjoy anal play as much as gay men do, but finding a way to interact with it can be difficult.
For many men, a butt plug is exciting enough to open their eyes to new experiences without being overwhelming. The trick lies in finding the right butt plug for your level of comfort and experience.
1. Start Small
There is no better advice than this: start small. Even if you’re really sure that you’re going to like the sensation, start out with a small butt plug. There are a variety of sizes and shapes, but to begin a small cone is your best bet. A tapered tip lets you experiment with how far you’d like it to go in, and you can work up to taking it in until it stops.
Remember to use a lot of lube; some men find that the insertion process is painful the first few times that they try. If you’re having a hard time, consider orgasming before you insert.
This relaxes muscles all over the body and will make it easier to slip the toy in. Once you’ve done that a few times, inserting it pre-ejaculation can be much easier. As always, be sure to use toy-safe lubricant liberally!
2. Consider What You Really Want in Stimulation
Once you’ve covered the basics, consider what you really want in stimulation. Size matters a lot to some men; they prefer a thick sex toy. Some only care about prostate massagers. If that’s the case, an anal dildo might be a better choice as opposed to a true butt plug.
There is a wide variety out there, and experimenting with different shapes and sizes is the best way to decide what you want and what you don’t before you plunk down cash for an expensive toy.
3. Sensitive Skin? Try Glass
If you’re having a lot of trouble with chafing (that’s not due to an allergic reaction) then you should try a glass toy. They’re the ultimate in smoothness. While they are sturdy, it’s still best to take a lot of care when handling your glass butt plug.
Keep it somewhere padded and soft, and preferably out of the way. These toys can get pricey, and it would be a shame for one to chip or crack. Still, glass butt plugs are the last word in comfort. And don’t worry; the glass quickly warms to body temperature.
Butt plugs can open the realm of anal play in a fun, safe way that a man can enjoy alone or with a partner. Finding the right butt plug for you is a combination of good sense and trial and error. Start small and work your way up to a pleasure that satisfies.
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