5 Great Reasons to Get a Sex Toy for Personal Use
People often think of sex toys as something that only people in relationships or who are hooking up would be interested in. Obviously, a good sex toy can enhance the pleasure of sex with a partner.
When it comes to self-pleasure, many people feel like their hands are good enough, or they’re afraid they’ll be seen as sex maniacs if their masturbatory aids are too exotic. Getting a sex toy for personal use is actually great, and there’s 5 good reason for that.
1. Relieve Personal Stress
The first great use of a sex toy is that it can make your orgasm more intense. Men and women experience greater happiness after an orgasm, and the effect can last for hours.
There are many health benefits to frequent orgasm, especially for men. Lower rates of testicular cancer, among other benefits, encourage men to enjoy themselves as often as they like.
2. Explore Your Sexuality Without Being Selfish
Many people are afraid that if they focus too much on what they like in bed their partner will think them selfish. While it may be rude to try new things that only appeal to you when you’re having sex with someone else, figuring it out on your own can be amazing. Explore your sexuality safely, without having to worry about what someone else likes.
3. Know What You like for Your next Intimate Encounter
When you know for sure what you like in bed, it’s easier to ask your next sexual encounter to do it. You’ve already tried things and you don’t have to make sex all about figuring out what you want them to do. You can ask for exactly what you want and still have thoughts to spare for what makes your partner feel amazing.
4. Live Your Fantasy
Using a sex toy by yourself allows you to live your fantasies. You can find the right porn, the right erotica, the right music to get you in the mood. You can play any role that you want, and experience fantasies that you can’t quite picture clearly when there’s someone else with you.
5. You Don’t Need a Partner Just for Sex
One of the biggest differences people notice when they stop relying on someone else for satisfying erotic experiences is that they have higher standards for their partner.
It’s not enough that someone is sexually attractive; they have to be kind, they have to be smart, they have to be funny. Other traits become more important when you know that you don’t just need a partner to get off.
Getting a sex toy for yourself is an empowering experience. It urges you to focus on what you like in bed and learning how to ask your partner for it. You’re in a great place to have high standards for your partners and yourself.
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