Why Buying a Sex Toy Makes a Man a Better Lover
Sex toys are for the bold. Dildos are for those who want more, vibrators are for the adventurous. When a man buys a sex toy for his wife or girlfriend, he’s setting up a relationship where sexual satisfaction is always on the schedule. Here’s why buying a sex toy will make a make a better lover.
He’s More in Tune with What His Woman Wants
When a man gets his woman a dildo, for example, he’s showing that he can pay attention to what she wants in bed. That old adage is indeed true: it’s not how much you have, it’s how you use it.
Even if your girlfriend occasionally wants a large dildo in bed, you will still be the one driving her wild with every thrust. A man who pays attention to his woman’s tastes is going to be a more attentive lover. A more attentive lover gets better results whether he’s using the sex toy on her or not.
She Can Be Honest with Her Feedback
Women have been trained by society not to talk about what they want in bed. For the average woman, talking about her fantasies makes her blush. Trying to give a man helpful pointers in bed is the stuff of her nightmares.
The important thing to remember when a woman is telling you what she likes is that she’s not trying to criticize you. If you’re making her feedback about you, you’re missing the point; she’s opening up to you.
She’s trusting you. She thinks that if she can just give you a few hints, you can drive her wilder than you ever have before. When you buy her a sex toy you tell her that her enjoyment is important to you.
She gets the confidence to open up and you get the best sex of your life.
He Can Enjoy a Return Gesture
Relationships where both partners are sexually generous tend to flourish. Sometimes, you have to take the first step to make that happen.
Prove your dedication to making her happy and you’ll get the same treatment in return. Using the sex toy can teach you more about what she wants; enjoying the fruits of your labor in return creates a positive feedback loop. Soon you won’t bat an eye when she’s suggesting even more exciting things for you to try out.
The lack of communication can cripple a sexual relationship. By bridging the gap and showing a woman you care about her pleasure, a man reaps experiences that will make him a better lover in this relationship and in general.
The more data you have on what women like, the better the odds that you can please anyone you take to your bed. It all starts when you get the perfect vibrator or dildo.
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